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Playlist For Educators

We have something new for both educators and students. The Humanity Project has assembled an “Educators Playlist” of inspiring videos for young people — all of them free, of course, and all available on our Humanity Project YouTube Channel.

You’ll discover videos that are appropriate for a wide range of kids: many for younger students, others for high school or even college-age youth. Some of these vids were made with the help of our Humanity Project students, others created solely by Humanity Project adults for younger viewers. We hope you may explore some of our awesome offerings … Oh, and here’s another link to share with any educators or guidance counselors or school media specialists you may know. This will take you directly to the Educators Playlist.

Again, it’s all free, all inspiring, all educational … and all of it, lots of fun. We believe both educators and kids will benefit from watching the videos on our new playlist. And we think you’ll enjoy watching them too.

Fave Humanity Pics (after 17 years)

The Humanity Project is 17 years old. Wow! A fullgrown teenager heading toward the big 2-0! Yep, our nonprofit was incorporated in the State of Florida on November 3, 2005. During all that time, we’ve organized and taken part in many events, of course, including our Thousand Youth March for Humanity in 2008 — the nation’s first mass children’s march against bullying. We’ve also connected with tens of thousands of kids and adults with a consistent message: every individual has an equal value and we all deserve respect. That’s been the theme with our acclaimed antibullying and teen driver safety programs … and with everything else we have done to date.

We thought you might enjoy a few of the photos we especially like after our first 17 years. Here they are, with a special shoutout to great photog Keith Spencer, who took some of these memorable shots. And here’s to another 17 years of work in the community by the Humanity Project! “Equality For Each, Respect For All!”


Back In The Classroom

We’ve persevered during a pandemic, keeping our work moving forward through programs, presentations and panel discussions at parks and libraries… sometimes virtually, sometimes in person as we deemed safe. Now the Humanity Project is back in the classroom, both virtually and in person. So far, our Humanity Club sessions are going well.

We’re working with 12 hand-picked student leaders at Pembroke Pines Charter Elementary School in Pembroke Pines, Florida. These are bright, engaged kids who want to make a difference in this challenged world. Our wonderful Humanity Project Board of Directors VP, Piper Spencer, is a teacher there, working for us in person to help our young folks understand the importance of “Equality For Each, Respect For All.” Other knowledgeable Board members offer virtual lessons during our one-hour sessions.

As always, we plan to involve the entire school in promoting respect — and stopping bullying. We’re also going to build another “Humanity Garden” as a place of rest and reflection and inspiration at this 700-student facility. We’ll tell you more about all that in the coming weeks … and our other efforts to contribute to a society where every human being feels valuable. For now, we want to thank Piper Spencer and Pembroke Pines Charter Elementary School. We’re very glad to get back inside the classroom.

Small Things Aren't Always Small

This is the second in a new series of blogs written for our website by Humanity Project Founder, Bob Knotts, a playwright, poet and author of the book “Beyond Me: Dissecting Ego To Find The Innate Love At Humanity’s Core.” These blogs offer a more personal perspective on the goodness and inherent value of humanity, ideas that are the foundation of the Humanity Project’s work.

So often each of us could make some meaningful difference in the life of another human being — but we don’t act. Over the years I’ve come to believe one of the main obstacles to well-intended action is this: We don’t feel our effort will really do anything to help that person.

I also have come to believe that we’re usually wrong about this.

Think of your own everyday experiences. Have you ever been tired or discouraged, only to have some stranger look at you with a sincere smile that lifted your spirits? I have, many times. Have you ever felt a change in your attitude toward the world when someone stops to let your car into heavy traffic or gestures you to go ahead of them in the supermarket checkout line or picks up something you dropped? Again, I’ve been buoyed by these small kindnesses often. Or have you ever had someone give you something small but unexpected that didn’t seem so small at the time?

Let me tell you about a moment like this when I was in my early 20s, living as a broke young writer in Burlington, Vermont. In addition to writing, I’m also a lifelong musician. I’ll include here a photo of me with my first drum set. As you see, I was barely old enough to walk.

A very young (and very grainy) Bob Knotts, with first drum set

One impoverished Vermont day, I needed a new pair of drumsticks. Not an expensive item. Standing at the counter to pay at my local music store, I found to my great frustration that I was more than one dollar short of enough money for my sticks. A pretty woman standing behind me instantly offered to pay the difference.

I remember feeling an intense sense of gratitude and affection for this person as I looked at her. “No, that’s very kind of you, but there’s no need,” I said — or something like those words. But her reply came back quickly and gently: “No, it would be my pleasure.” My point here? I have never forgotten that woman, though I’m now nearly 67-years-old. Her generosity, her kindness, her sincere gesture to help a struggling musician, these things touched me more deeply than I knew at the time. I can only hope that somehow she’s reading this and also remembers that afternoon in Vermont.

More than 40 years later, I couldn’t tell you exactly what this stranger looked like. She will always be beautiful in my memory. I never knew her name … and it didn’t matter at all. But I have recalled many dozens of times this simple act of humanity. And her act in turn has inspired me to help others in similar ways whenever possible.

Small things aren’t always so small, are they? And sometimes a pair of new drumsticks is all that’s needed to restore our stronger faith in the goodness and inherent value of fellow human beings.

Jack's Car: A Story

Jack from Key West … and his remarkable car

This is the first in a new series of blogs written for our website by Humanity Project Founder, Bob Knotts, a playwright, poet and author of the book “Beyond Me: Dissecting Ego To Find The Innate Love At Humanity’s Core.” These blogs offer a more personal perspective on the goodness and inherent value of humanity, ideas that are the foundation of the Humanity Project’s work.

I’d like to introduce you to Jack. I never did catch his last name. Really didn’t matter at the time we met – to him or to me.

What did matter at the time, to him and to me, was Jack’s car. You see it in these photos I snapped earlier this month while on vacation in Key West. When I first spotted him, Jack was working intently to attach the latest additions to that extraordinary vehicle, only stopping once to scatter some food across the ground for a passel of local chickens.

As you know if you’ve ever visited in recent years, Key West is full of chickens roaming the streets and yards all around that small island. Mother hens, baby chicks as well as the many roosters that crow whenever they feel inspired, day or night. As you also likely recall if you’ve ever set foot in Key West, it’s a place full of … let’s call them local characters. Eccentric folks who are as much part of the funky laidback vibe as Mallory Square and Duval Street. The old-timers who never seem to wear more than a bathing suit and flipflops, bearded men typically standing around with a beer in one hand. The ample couples squeezed tight atop compact motor scooters that dart among the tourists. The would-be writers and artists and craftspeople who arrived temporarily in Key West long long ago but never could quite leave, most of them forced to survive on waiter tips or minimum retail wages.

So to me, Jack was just one more. Another Key West character demonstrating his independence from everyone around him – and making sure everyone noticed.

Then I decided to chat with Jack. “Quite the car you have,” I said. He replied in a thick Eastern European accent, “It’s my car … and my wife.” Or that’s what I thought he said anyway. But as we continued talking I finally understood what Jack really was struggling to express. I looked at him, puzzled now: “The car … it’s a tribute to your wife?” I asked.

“Yes,” he said, nodding. “She passed away 20 years ago.”

This most peculiar car and its most eccentric creator were much more than I’d imagined. From a distance I could easily dismiss his existence with a condescending smile, adding Jack to my mind’s catalogue of Key West oddities. But looking more closely I soon could recognize something deeper about both car and creator. This automobile was Jack’s Taj Mahal, a monument to his undying devotion to one long dead woman. And everything on that automobile had some meaning about her. The mermaids were beauty and love. The dolphins represented freedom. And above it all, the image of his wife forever riding on the rooftop over Jack’s head.

“We were very close,” Jack told me softly.

How quickly we judge others in our world, judge them without the slimmest strip of knowledge to justify our instant conclusions. In our certainty we laugh at them, ridicule them, avoid them. The truth of those strange characters we sometimes see in passing through our busy day is obvious, afterall. Except that it isn’t. After a conversation of less than 10 minutes, my concepts of both Jack and his car were transformed. And I was forced to learn all over again an old lesson I should have remembered by now: People are rarely what they appear on the surface – and everyone, everyone has an important story that’s all their own.

You Are Stardust

Hubble telescope image courtesy of NASA

How do you teach a young child concepts such as the importance of respect for every individual, the value of diversity and the need for self-worth? Ideas that even many adults couldn’t explain clearly …

At the Humanity Project, we teach through play: videos, music, games, roleplaying and more. Art inspires the emotion that helps concepts to stick in the mind. One of our arts-based ideas for teaching also is science-based. We show kids that among the many reasons each person deserves respect is this amazing fact: Most of the materials inside every human being are formed from stardust. Literally. Science knows that elements such as carbon, oxygen, iron and nearly everything else that makes up you and all of us can only be manufactured by the extreme temperatures created within stars.

That’s an extraordinary notion to learn — for kids and adults both. And so we suggest you check out our latest video, just posted on the Humanity Project YouTube channel. It is called simply, “You Are Stardust.” Watch the video!

It’s short, it’s engaging, it’s factual … and offers us one more way to connect with kids. It was made with help from our Humanity Club girls at Morrow Elementary, many of them appearing in the video. And now they will help us bring the video and a short talk about this topic to every student in their school, classroom by classroom. The goal is to encourage the entire student body to treat everyone in school with respect, part of our year-long Humanity Club project at Morrow. Kids teaching kids, kids helping kids … That’s what we do at the Humanity Project.